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Welcome to YOU.logy. We Are Glad You Are Here!
What is YOU.logy?
YOU.logy is…A Clever Play on Words that Literally Means: A Study of YOU.
All Good Studies Start with a: Genuine Interest in the Subject AND A Desire to Better Understand.
All Good Studies Lead to: Greater Knowledge and Appreciation for What Is.
YOU.logy is Also…A Word that Sounds like Eulogy which Literally Means: 1. A Speech that Praises Someone Highly 2. A Study of What is True, Pleasant and of Genuine Goodness.
All Good Eulogies Start With a: Life Review that Focuses on the Goodness of a Person.
All Good Eulogies Lead to: Words of Appreciation for Who the Person Was,
What they Contributed to the World, And Meaningful Moments Shared.
YOU.logy Could Also Be…A Radical Social Experiment in Loving Kindness
Where We Start our Social Interactions with:
- Genuine Interest In Each Other
- Mindful Presence
- Thoughtful Inquiry & Active Listening
- A Desire to Understand & Find the Good in Each Other
And We End our Social Interactions with:
- Greater Knowledge and Appreciation for Who Someone Is
- And Direct Statements of What We Recognized and Enjoyed About Them
What would happen if we entered our conversations AS IF someday we may be asked to deliver this person’s eulogy?
What would we pay attention to and be interested in?
What would we hope to experience or create with them?
What would we truly know and could say about them?
Rather tragically, eulogies are often the most generous words…NEVER spoken…
to the person who most needed to hear them.
Why do we wait to tell people what we see and appreciate about them?
What greatness might have been inspired if they knew how keenly they were being seen and appreciated?
What kind of world would we live in if even a few of our social interactions were a YOU.logy ?
You.logy is A Personal Passion Project and Social Challenge…
join me in dropping Social Scripts and Routines.
Go into the world with mindful presence.
Pay attention to the people around you with A childlike Curiosity
& A Genuine Desire to Understand them.
Look for their goodness.
& Dare to share ONe thing you appreciated, or enjoyed about them
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The Myth of Certainty
What is your relationship with uncertainty? Like a well-orchestrated square dance, uncertainty weaves the ring of our life with its favorite dance partner, discomfort. Some days, we are called to turn our back on it and “do- si- do.” Other days, we take hold of it and proudly “promenade.” Yet other days, we are invited…
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What’s Hidden?
It has been decades since I have been laughed at… And when it recently happened at work, I found myself both confused and aware of a sensitive child still residing within me. At the time, I was helping a pair of young women, who I suspect would be considered Gen Z, when one of them…
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What Are You Looking For?
Have you ever watched a baby stare at its own hand with utter fascination? I feel this way most of the time. People fascinate me. Words fascinate me. The way life orchestrates just the right set of circumstances that can lead to personal evolution…FASCINATING! A short time ago, I started a new part time job…